The only way to find any compromise between the loves of the world, is to open your mind and heart. Do you realize that the person you despise, has a family, friends, and a life, just like you, that they are trying to protect. Respect one another's beliefs, open up to them, and understand them. You don't have to adopt them as yours, but be able to show sympathy for one another. Humble your pride, and look into your heart for the common ground of humanity.